How to Support Your Young Adult in Gaining Employment

October 08, 20251 min read
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Latest PostsHow to Support Your Young Adult in Gaining Employment

For many parents, helping a young adult with autism find and keep a job feels overwhelming.
The truth is—employment success doesn’t start with a résumé. It starts with identity.

Step 1: Help Them Discover Their Strength Identity

Before job applications or interviews, help your young adult identify what makes them unique.
Ask

  • What do you enjoy doing for long periods of time?

  • What do others often come to you for help with?

  • What activities give you energy, not drain it?

  • When they understand their strengths, they can look for roles that fit their wiring, not fight it.

Step 2: Build Confidence Through Small Wins

If the leap to full-time employment feels too big, start smaller: volunteer roles, internships, or part-time positions.
These experiences build social comfort and professional identity.

Step 3: Coach the Process, Don’t Control It

Let them take ownership of the job search process—but stay nearby as a guide. You can role-play interviews, help them plan logistics, and celebrate effort, not just outcomes. Remember: every step, even rejection, builds skill and resilience.
The goal isn’t just a job—it’s the confidence to keep showing up.

To help your young adult gain and sustain employment, check out working with Blake through his one-on-one coaching program.

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